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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

Report scams to Police Scotland on 101

In Scotland, report romance fraud to Police Scotland on 101, not Report Fraud. If you have sent money, contact your bank straight away on a number you know is genuine, such as the one on the back of your card.

Source: Police Scotland: Romance fraud

Get advice and support

Advice Direct Scotland and Trading Standards are on 0808 164 6000, and Victim Support Scotland offers free, confidential help on 0800 160 1985. Call 999 if you feel scared or threatened.

Source: Police Scotland: Shut Out Scammers, more information

Keep details private and tell a friend

Do not share your home address, full name or workplace too early, and never send money to someone you met online. Before a first date, tell a friend where you will be and how you are getting home.

Source: Get Safe Online: Keep online dating safe this Valentine's, and every day

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to report a romance scam in the UK. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

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